Nikki Loscalzo, Ed. M.
RLT & DARTT Certified
Empowering couples to get past surface issues and heal the damage that gets in the way of intimate connection.
I first discovered the tremendous power of Relational Life Therapy when Terry Real transformed my own marriage. Inspired by my personal experience with RLT, I trained directly with Terry Real through his Relational Life Institute to learn how to empower couples to transform their relationships. Through his intensive certification program, I learned how to work with couples to quickly diagnose the problems in the relationship, uncover why these issues exist, and repair damage to change the dynamic and rebuild a truly intimate relationship.
As is typical in Relational Life Therapy, I won’t be the kind of couples counselor who sits back and mostly listens and validates. Instead, my style is active and directive. I’ll ask lots of questions to home in on what is going on in your relationship that pulls you away from each other and gets in the way of reconnection and repair. As I learn about you, I’ll offer plenty of strategies, insights, tools, and resources to help you to shift your behavior and build new skills to make your interactions with one another less difficult and more intimate. Also, while I will invite you to explore readings and ideas to help you educate yourself and improve your relational skills and knowledge, I won’t offer traditional relationship “homework” assignments or suggested conversations. In RLT, we believe that your relationship is the laboratory for change, and the best way to improve your relationship is to deliberately use your new skills in your natural day to day interactions with one another and see how it works.
You don’t need to suffer in a relationship where you feel lonely, resentful, hurt, and misunderstood.
You deserve to be in an intimate, connected, and essentially cherishing relationship.
I’ve lived it. I’ve seen it. You can too.
Reach out. I can help.
The psychological equivalent of air
is feeling understood.
- Nikki Loscalzo, Ed. M.
You Don't Have To Settle
The relationship you wish for is possible, but sometimes skills and tools aren’t enough to get you there. Most of us have times in our lives when we need help to rebuild the passion and connection in our relationships.
If this is where you are - reach out. I can help.
Contact me today for a twenty-minute free phone consultation or to set up an initial ninety-minute session.