"I Need to Tell You What's Wrong (with You)..."
Most of us also complain because, in the moment, complaining feels good as we vent our frustrations, anger, and disappointments. But while c
When Terry Real (LINK) refers to this experience of “normal marital hatred,” he often quips that in the decades that he has used this phrase
When it comes to our intimate relationships all of us are fiction writers. Unfortunately, most of the time we don’t realize that we’re writi
When your relationship is falling apart it can seem hopeless, and like nothing you do can fix the problems that have built up between you. B
At its most basic level, emotional intimacy is the purpose of any close relationship. Emotional intimacy allows you to be vulnerable, to sha
When parents have different positions on what they consider safe and appropriate for where their kids should venture and what is safe for th
While dealing with the stress and uncertainty of COVID-19 and the resulting economic upheaval, many of us are experiencing a great deal of t
When these "Losing Strategies" fail to move us into a state of repair the relationship suffers, and over time our relationships becomes less
In a short week and a half our lives have been dramatically altered in almost every conceivable way. Financial worries, health fears, profou
All relationships continually move through a cycle of harmony, disharmony, and repair. Most of us think that the problem lies in the disharm
For a relationship to not just survive, but to remain passionate and intimate over the long term one of the most important things a couple n
Of course, on some level, even our most out of control expressions of hurt and anger often remain a perverse expression of our yearning for
relationship “Losing Strategy” number one, “Needing to Be Right.” So, why is this strategy a loser even when you are, in fact,
The relationship you wish for is possible, but sometimes skills and tools aren’t enough to get you there. Most of us have times in our lives when we need help to rebuild the passion and connection in our relationships.
If this is where you are - reach out. I can help.
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